Let me tell you what happens If I filter myself... People have a total misconception of me, and they reach out to me in stupid lame ways that I would never be excited about.
Or stupid people that think or don't want to accept we are not just "Oh, look at me, Miss. Perfection with my pink t-shirt good girl" because we just published a picture wearing a pink t-shirt.
Or because I just posted a picture of me on a black attire with a maniac face and now I'm just another "gothic maniac bitch"
And we can't miss the asshole (asshole is both for men and women, just being clear) who would think you are a "whore" or a "pervert" because you just explicitly said how much you adore sex or because you just said that people should have more sex than doing stupid yoga. (Jen you never said that... Well, I just did ;) ) Or the ones that think you are openly looking for people to mate or just because you speak a certain way you are "a" and not "z" — B-O-R-I-N-G.
And here's the thing; our limited mind loves to make assumptions and call everything into relation to our own experiences, to what mama thought us is good, to what daddy thinks you should do, to what people think a "nice person" should say, look, walk, sleep, speak, drink, smoke, pee, etc. Etc.
And well let's talk about "whores" for a second;
NOT all the whores are free and NOT all the free ones are whores. (Whores being both; men and women, and not just limited to sex, but maybe we will keep the sex analogy for simplicity.) So; why do we believe and fall into the false assumption that claiming our sexuality birthright is "iniquitous"? Could it be because your desires are coming from your shadow? Maybe ;) And well — Lets' talk about desires coming from our shadow or about a whore that is not free;
Desires coming as a way of validating what we feel we are missing.
Desires as a way of torturing our low self-esteem.
Desires wanting to possess someone.
Desires because you are bored.
Desires because you are alone.
Desires because you need money.
Desires because someone broke your heart and you need to take revenge.
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[...] Secret desires because your mom said a "nice" person doesn't do that.
Desires because of... Duh, you can't let that opportunity go...
Desires based on scarcity.
Desires to prove someone wrong
I can go on, just *insert your own shadow rooted desire here* and we are good to go ;)
And now a free one that is not a whore... Do I need to explain it? I think you get the idea, already ;)
And well... you can also be by conscious choice a free "whore", no shame on that, as long as you do your homework shadow work <3 😏
You are safe with me (or without) even if you are not comfortable.